See my post a few slots above. I just read your comment and am quite surprised that someone feels so similar to the way I do. It has to be genuine, though. All of these factors push against our sex life and we have talked and talked and talked about what we can do. First off, his losing 20 pounds could take months. Then even when you try it's received as mercy.
Some more posts you'll love—. I will tell you that being the high sex drive female in our relationship for over 17yrs is not easy. Sometimes they string their ill-fated relationships together one after another; other times they avoid romantic and sexual relationships altogether, usually for finite periods of time a few weeks, a few months, a few years though occasionally forever. At first reading, this passage may also seem to teach that sex is a duty, a required act. If you have been turning her off e. If you start trying to keep score, you will lose.
Hamilton Nwamaka favour November 1, , pm. The marriage covenant, just like a car needs gas, has sex as one of the fuels on which it runs. They deserve credit where it is due. The cycle Submitted by A pretty good guy on May 29, - am. In fact, it does the opposite. I am about to the point of chewing my leg off to get out of it.
If that was the only way people did anything sexual, a lot of people would never have sex. Because no guy is going to willingly deepen a level of commitment unless he has to. Sex is an All Encompassing Word. If you start trying to keep score, you will lose. Once your partner sees you focusing on yourself rather than your sex life, he or she just might want to be more involved in your life—in every way. But do what you can to release yourself and your husband. Dear Lord, Thank You for the gift of sex!